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Can anyone recommend a good finite elements textbook? Ideally should cover nonlinear as well as linear finite elements.
Try this one: http://www.amazon.com/Concepts-Applications-Finite-Element-Analysis/dp/0471356050 It is very good on basic theory, with superficial treatment on many topics including non-linearity. The table of contents is available for perusal at the link.