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## Ryleighblue Cyber Bullying. This is an issue all over and everyone needs to watch this video, cyber bullying, or just bullying period can lead to suicide I'm a victim so I understand and anyone who has been a victim please speak up your voice will be heard http://www.youtube.com/watch?NR=1&v=-5PZ_Bh-M6o&feature=endscreen 10 months ago 10 months ago

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1. thomaster

I'd just ignore cyber bullies. Fun will go away if you don't respond at all and eventually they'll leave you and go look for a new target.

2. Batmanmusicfreak101

but sometimes they dont leave... they keep picking til you crack for the fun of it just because you try and ignore it dosnt mean you can forever eventually it does take over and it's awful believe me I know

3. Ryleighblue

But any target is bad I don't ignore them I stand up to them I used to get bullied a lot so I had low self asteam but now I set myself as a leader and I don't make my self fit In I don't I don't understand why people or what people get out of bullying

4. Batmanmusicfreak101

they get the satisfaction of feeling that they are better than everyone else... thats why they do it because they dont like themselves and they bully to make other people feel bad so they can feel good about themselves for once.

5. thomaster

People who bully usually have problems of their own and they want to take out their own frustrations on others.

6. Ryleighblue

Everybody who bullies has a problem of their own they try to cover up.

7. Batmanmusicfreak101

well maybe they should work on themselves instead of locking it up and hurting others... they would get alot further in life if they did

8. Ryleighblue

amen It's not fair for them to take their problems out on other people cause they didn't do it.

9. Batmanmusicfreak101

Exactly! I was pulled out of public school, lost all my friends except one and now i have trouble going out in public and social issues they dont know how much they effect someones life, they need to cut it out cause soon the bully's will be the bullied if they keep going like this,

10. thomaster

Still i think ignoring is the best solution. What's the fun in bullying someone who doesn't seem to care at all? if they continue they must really hate you. I would just find a way to get them back (hacking) but that would make me a bully xD

11. Ryleighblue

I was bullied because of my personal situation I trusted my "best friend" with it spread across the school and before I knew it I was a chick who got abused who wasn't worth the time of day at school :( It ripped me to shreads so to build my self confidence back up I was home schooled until high school

12. the1739man

i hat went and killed himself with a 9 mm because he was bullied and picked on at school all the time

13. Batmanmusicfreak101

My mom wanted to send me to the middle school for my last year of middle and I refused scared if i go back it would happen all over again i'm talking like melt downs... it was really bad.. I'm sorry that happened to you Ryleigh </3 and @Thomaster haha nahh dont hack just do what i do if it's over the cmputer fight back or if it's person well... i just stand there and look at the floor thats how bad it is they walk all over me...

14. Ryleighblue

Eh well it wasn't the worst thing in my life and I stayed stong through something so much worse then being bullied and if I stayed strong through that I can stay strong through high school and the last year of middle I just hate seeing people get bullied or abused cause I know how bad it is :(

15. the1739man

if someone were to walk all over me and pick on me i would start throwing punches and not stop untill i am pulled off of the JERK!!!

16. mangorox

I was bullied in scholl multiple times and when I went to a new school I would make up stuff like my teacher was mean and stuff like that so my parents would take me out of that school and homeschool me :(. I did that multiple times. I'm still doing online school today(starting 6th grade after this summer). In my online school people accept me for who I am and there all realllllllllllllllllyyyyyyyy nice. So I'm happy where I stand now.

17. mangorox

*school

18. the1739man

in fact if i saw a younger kid being bullied i would stand up for him

19. Ryleighblue

I always stand up to them and never join the crowd I literally cant stress enough how emotional I get about bullying

20. Batmanmusicfreak101

Same here I wont stand up for myself but if it's someone I know or my family you better run cause that wont fly with me even when my older sister yells at my mom to shut up and stuff I start yelling cause thats my mom and yeah... I dont take that stuff but if it's towards me I shut down and go mute for almost hours just replaying it in my head... it's awful. I literally can't trust anyone in my town i turned to the computer and made friends on there cause they were so nice and accepted me for me hence another reason I have social issues I spend so much time in the house and on the computer.... it effected me alot it started in K and went all the way through 6th...

21. Ryleighblue

OMG you duplicated me there^^

22. JA1

Bullies will run like cowards if you stand up to them, even if they punch you down after doing so just get back up and put tour other cheek, literally, they will be more humiliated than you will be.

23. Batmanmusicfreak101

Easier said than Done JA1...

24. Ryleighblue

I'd like to see that be successful you have a pair of twins on the end of your wrist for a reason as long as its in self defense you better use them.

25. Batmanmusicfreak101

I've only had to hit someone once and it was my sister.... lets just say I dont like getting bullied in my own home and I won that day (she's three years older and thought that just cause im younger it wasnt so pretty)

26. Ryleighblue

I've hit someone Once and it was FOR my at the time 2year old brother I ripped her weave out it was bad she wanted to not only "Down Talk" me but a defenseless done nothing wrong baby it TOTALLY pissed me off so I went country hood on her. You don't mess with my brother he might only be 4 right now but he's still my brother and I would not only take a bullet but I'd come back to live 5 times over to take a bullet for that boy.

27. Batmanmusicfreak101

I really want to start something for bullying and to stop it... I can't get anyone to work on it with me idc if it's on facebook,twitter,ect I just want to start something... hey Ryleigh would you do it with me? I wanna prove to anyone who has ever bullied me and other people,who said that we would get no where in life and stuff is proved wrong

28. Ryleighblue

OF COURSE! I'd do anything to defend the defenseless

29. callie2240

cyberbullying isn't a joke, its just like real bullting except you cant escape ever all around the world people know and you feel trapped. My bestie killed herself over it, i almost did before but im better now, ssso trust me it is a big deal and to those who just stand by or does it you are just letting some one get hurt or possibly die if they cant help it

30. Batmanmusicfreak101

Cool message me and we can talk about it? anyone else can join if they want :)

31. Ryleighblue

OMG. Im so glad you okay now @callie2240 I'm sorry you or anybody has to go through all of this and a lot of us here know cause we've been there and still are recovering like I'm in counseling from not just bullying but close enough. it's bad. worse then people realize

32. Batmanmusicfreak101

Yes very, landed me in therapy and i'll be in here god knows how long... Im glad your okay @callie2240 :)

33. Ryleighblue

it landed me there for 2+ years :/

34. Batmanmusicfreak101

That stinks :/ yeah it's some pretty messed up stuff.. but, if we all stick together we can get through this :)

35. callie2240

Im ok, i was in the mental instution for trying but i got better, and now i know better, but i still have my moments remembering but it happens to everyone, i realize that @Batmanmusicfreak101 and @Ryleighblue thank you

36. callie2240

your completly right @Batmanmusicfreak101

37. Ryleighblue

The saddest part is the spand of victims is larger then the spand of bullys so if we do stick together we can over come the bullys

38. callie2240

true that

39. Batmanmusicfreak101

that is completely true! Well not in my town... there are groups of bullies and they usually stick with like one or two people... unless you got bullied like me everyone in school bullied me sometimes even the teachers would say stuff

40. Ryleighblue

Okay Callie you tag anyone you can on or off line that's A-F Batman Tag H-N I got the rest

41. callie2240

i know how that is my whole family did it to me, the whole school and even my friends, even when i was in the insitution, but i rather be there cause others were more nicer and understanding

42. Neuronerd

I'm so sorry to hear your troubles with these individuals! Just know that it is more a reflection of the bullies character that comes out, especially if they have their own emotional problems. It is not a reflection of your character and do not become disempowered by it. There will always be bullies but how you deal with them is a critical choice, especially if you feel helpless or unsupported. If the bully uses strictly psychological tactics you need not worry about staying your ground and being confident in your shoes. If the bully seems aggressive or even hostile, being brave may not be the best answer. Seek guidance from a counsellor or adult. I hope that helps and by no means are these the only ways of dealing with bullies effectively. Spread the Peace and Love, but don't give out indiscriminately :)

43. callie2240

@primeralph @amistre64 @BrandonGarza777 @csimmons3 @dan815

44. callie2240

I was jumped and beatin almost everyday beforeand after school

45. Ryleighblue

@poopsiedoodle @purpleboy16 @poopsiedoodle @Preetha @PvtGunner @robtobey @reemii @roobyb @Rayvenn.14 @razor99 @redred413 @sasogeek @SnuggieLad @some_someone @stabar @selrachcw95 @Stewie_Griffin_ @thomaster @turtlemaroon @tcarroll010 @taystclair96 @the5the @TheSaint905621 @UmarsBack @vac33 @whpalmer4 @wmckinely @WTFork @zepdrix @zacharyf @Zarkon @Zale101 @zb

46. Batmanmusicfreak101

Tagging people for what? I only follow Five people on here just got the account a few days ago

47. Ryleighblue

Just random people just type the letter and let their name pop up and click it. And do it so we can get as many people as possible to stand against with us. and to let the people who might get bullied on here know theres someone here for them

48. callie2240

@Neuronerd no one ever helped me they just thought it was no biggy

49. Ryleighblue

@uri @marcoduuuh @mangorox

50. Batmanmusicfreak101

@Neuronerd the teachers watched and didn't care... they actually laughed no one really cares until it happens to them

51. callie2240

Every buddy said i should die and im worthless when they did it, i took a few on but when 20 year old dudes and chicks join its kind of hard...

52. BrandonGarza777

This is very sad and moving if anyone is being bullied just know that your never alone God sticks closer then a friend will never think your any less because of what someone said about you not everyone in this world is going to like you so keep your head up high and know what God thinks of you. I will never be the same follower of Christ. "Unashamed"

53. Compassionate

People are digging in the trash for a rotten apple core, and you're telling me a rich girl killed herself because someone called her a name online? Good. Nothing of value was lost.

54. Neuronerd

That sounds like a very unsupportive community. It is beyond me to give suggestions since I do not know you directly, but I would ask if you feel like a victim, independent of the bullying. If your answer is yes, then you have to address that need within yourself to be understood and to be affirmed within your individuality (yeah that does sound like some psycho-babble). Just do what you like, flip the bird at nay-sayers, and live your life as happy as possible. I know it gets more complicated then this, but at least it is a starting point.

55. Neuronerd

@Compassionate now that wasn't very compassionate. A life is a life. I even feel bad when I swat a mosquito... but that doesn't stop me from doing it, that dirty bloodsucker!

56. Batmanmusicfreak101

@heyheyheyhelpme123 @Noemi95 @NoelGreco @nubeer @ivettef365 @johnweldon1993 @jdoe0001 @justin12lo @kyrsten17 @Kitt020912 @ketz @Loser66 @mikaa_toxica13 @msumner @master43 @matthewreader

57. mikaa_toxica13

All I saw was thet opic and started commenting. I have been a victim of cyber and physical bullying. At home and school.

58. Ryleighblue

@andriod09 @avsethu @aprilsages @AriPotta @Abarnett @bahrom7893 @Bearsfan98 @bigbang1995 @Cutie<3 @cmarie @carleton123 @dumbcow @damien @DaebakJoo @Danny_Boy @dmezzullo @e.cociuba @excuseme @Frostbite @FutureMathProfessor @Falco276 @Fansee_ @GoldPhenoix @godisgreatbeerisgood @heyheyheyhelpme123 @hermit @help123please. @helpme1423 @i0iz0gangster @ivettef365 @iamanocean @jdoe0001 @justin12lo @JA1 @johnweldon1993 @Jack1 @Jemurray3 @ketz @Kermie1459 @kyrsten17 @kawsam @Kitt020912 @kalyor @Loser66 @LaShaun97 @LazyBoy @mikaa_toxica13 @master43 @matthewreader @mmpt @MiamiGM @MiamiGM @msumner

59. Batmanmusicfreak101

@Neuronerd yeah it isn't so great here... all the kids here care about is sports,drinking and yeah... just the bird and standing up isnt enough take it to far you get jumped,shot at,ect. and @Compassionate yeah we don't like what your saying... have nothing to say dont say anything at all

60. Neuronerd

@Batmanmusicfreak101 true, its very easy to not care and be emotionally absent to these horrible events. But I think that is more a product of the type of society we live in and its standards of normality and its expectations... Throw those out the window and be free (of course, easier said then done)

61. callie2240

@Compassionate come on dude, if you think that you probably bullied yourself and hurt someone for it, have some respect, its people who say that stuff that starts it. people cant change the way they feel but you know what that was screw up to even say

62. Compassionate

I've been jumped by 5 people. I've been in physical conflicts and have done my time. I mean, how does that even work? In real life you get beaten up and kicked, stomped and spit on. Over the internet, just like, block the person or walk away. First World Problems.

63. primeralph

Hello.....why was I tagged?

64. Ryleighblue

EVERYBODY TAGGED, you were tagged to help us stand together in the fight against bully IF you have any Ideas or anything you wanna share please do it here or pm me @callie2240 or @Batmanmusicfreak101 we are gonna do our best to start something against bullying and remember anything Big starts with something small

65. Batmanmusicfreak101

@Compassionate we have all been bullied in real life to... not just over the internet okay? So dont go starting stuff

66. primeralph

Oh I get it now. Bullies! @Compassionate people have different pain thresholds. Understand that.

67. callie2240

@Compassionate you should know it doesn't feel good at all and you have no idea what others go through so don't judge till you know, people must have it worst than you so you know what, you may have it bad but you have no idea....rape even happens for torcher you have no idea

68. Neuronerd

@Compassionate thats some experience you got there, but it doesn't debase the importance of problems even if you call them 'first world'. I think what are you are mentioning is for people to buck up and get some grit on their shoulders, which definitely the right thing to do, but it is beyond you to criticize other people's problems. Be a bit more compassionate.

69. primeralph

Not like I'm starting a beef, but some people are sensitive to some topics. If you hit them at that spot, you can break them. So yeah, Cyber Bullying can be as bad as the real thing......

70. Ryleighblue

The making of the video isn't me. I just found it and it made me want to start a controversy about bullying

71. callie2240

and btw they even clame your a whore after word when you fight so everyone hates you and dont know the truth and post it on the internet and do it in real life and more people hurt you the same way so @Compassionate thats all i have to say

72. Compassionate

Actually, you're all wrong. Cyberbullying was created by rich kids who don't know how harsh reality really is. Only teenage kids get cyberbullied because of their pretentious teen-complexes. Any mature adult could see how infantile they're acting. The truth hurts. The world is a lonely place and no one gets anything for free. And you know what? Everyone you know and love is going to die. Nobody can make you suffer. ALL they can do is impinge upon your six senses. They can make you see certain things, they can make you feel certain things. They can make you hear, smell, taste, and possibly think certain things. But they can't make you react to those certain things in a certain way.

73. cmarie

I have been both cyber bullied and bullied in person a number of times, people have told me to "kill myself" and that "no one liked me" and all sorts of horrible things. Of course I disabled these accounts I was being bullied on to resolve the problem. My friends were there to support me and tell me positive things about myself. I am very thankful that I have a solid group of friends who really care about me and were able to help me through it. I think its pathetic how people sit behind a computer screen and write mean things to people. it really needs to stop. thank you for sharing this video with everyone! awareness needs to be raised more on this problem (:

74. poopsiedoodle

Honestly, you shouldn't let it get to you. It's really not that hard to go on with life. So what if people don't like you. It doesn't matter. There are people that do. Lol. I honestly hate it when people are like "omgz i wuz buly'd once and i wunna kil miself :(((9999". It's so annoyinh. SO. ANNOYING.

75. heyheyheyhelpme123

People don't have to be rude she just wanted to share a video with us she is not taking a side

76. Compassionate

Getting cyberbullied is a choice. Good game, guys.

77. poopsiedoodle

annoying*

78. e.cociuba

Cyber bullying happens for many of the same reasons as any other type of bullying, but it may be even more appealing because it can be done anonymously. Popular kids or teens may bully because: -They see it as a way to stay popular. -Hurting others makes them feel powerful. -It helps them cope with their own low self-esteem. -They think it will help them fit in with their peers. -They have trouble empathizing with those they hurt. This is always going to happen. The question here is what are YOU going to do to prevent this from happening? Yes everyone gets bullied in life, if not cyber bullied, then in many other ways (verbally, physically, etc.) How are we as a group going to help stop this? You said that you wanted us to form something, well in that case... Does anybody have ideas?

79. primeralph

@Compassionate ......"rich kids" and "kids with problems" don't mean the same thing. If you ever had problems you'll understand.... And change your name from Compassionate

80. Ryleighblue

can you please walk away Mrs.Uncompassionate? we are here to defend victims not be one

81. primeralph

I did not watch the video. I don't care for it. My point is that people should not dismiss Cyber Bullying.

82. poopsiedoodle

Like, people used to be douchebags to me all the time and making fun of me, and quite frankly, I couldn't care less about any of it. It's really not hard to ignore it, even if they continue to do it. Let them. As @Compassionate said, it's a choice.

83. Batmanmusicfreak101

Okay is @Compassionate bothering anyone else or just me? I hate to be this person but I really disagree with her....

84. primeralph

Listen guys. @Compassionate is not wrong. Nobody is wrong. It's all perspective.

85. poopsiedoodle

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86. Ryleighblue

It's pretty much everyone @Batmanmusicfreak101

87. poopsiedoodle

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88. Neuronerd

Its not what @Compassionate is saying, its just how he's saying it. But ultimately I think he holds a lot of truth as to how to handle bullies and more or less put things into perspective. I would ask @Compassionate if he has ever lived in a 3rd world country to say these things?

89. Ryleighblue

@Preetha can you take care of @Compassionate being a negative nancy about something serious?

90. callie2240

@poopsiedoodle and @Compassionate things happen if you dont care just walk away and dont mind this convo, not trying to be rude but its whats best for everyone

91. Compassionate

This is what I'm hearing, "Stop having a different opinions than I do! If you do, then you're an annoying person!" Can we talk about the complex social implications and the eccentric workings of the brain? Can we dive deep into philosophy without throwing straw man arguments and ad hominems? No matter which way you look at it, the demographics show that people who get cyberbullied are white teenage girls with teen-complexes. They have no real problems, but it's fun to make-beleive!

92. callie2240

@e.cociuba is right no more arguing plz

93. primeralph

Can we all chill and go skinny dipping? .....we should be fighting bullies not one another...

94. Batmanmusicfreak101

idk about the skinny dipping but im up for some PS3 or Xbox XD and for the fighting bullies :p

95. Compassionate

I'm not being a negative-nancy. I'm just saying that cyberbullying isn't this all know, all awful, all grieving sensitive topic. So, I have a different view on something? At OpenStudy, we embrace such things! :) I'm sorry if you feel I'm being a downer, but for all intents and purposes I disagree cyberbullying is even an issue.

96. poopsiedoodle

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97. primeralph

I don't like how this is turning to a contest.

98. primeralph

@poopsiedoodle please take that out.

99. poopsiedoodle

Why?

100. Batmanmusicfreak101

Okay seriously can everyone who is working on the fighting bullies just start PMing so all the arguing stops? that would be great :)

101. thomaster

@poopsiedoodle lol the page will get so much lag because of you now xD

102. Neuronerd

So you think nothing should be done about cyberbullying or are you denying its negative effects or what part of cyberbullying do you think is not an issue? I think you are dividing a very strong black and white line of what appropriate behavior is, but some people feel helpless and hopeless and then your advice would just be an insult to their already unsupportive situation, that is why you are not compassionate @Compassionate. But not that you're wrong ;)

103. primeralph

.............so Skinny Dipping now?

104. Ryleighblue

Okay so let me get this straight we are here to help victims please don't come here to start more drama

105. Cutie<3

@Batmanmusicfreak101 ik exactly how you feel girl!!! I was bullied to the extreme....its terrible what people do there days... @BrandonGarza777 AMEN TO THAT! God is the only one who can truly help you get through anything like this. This is when I grew closer to him.

106. callie2240

ok everyone i think its best everyone just be nice cause right now we are bth being bullies,

107. Neuronerd

@Compassionate the game was never a game :(

108. Compassionate

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109. Cutie<3

Haha(: thanx @e.cociuba That is the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth! <3

110. e.cociuba

True that! @Cutie<3 You want help? Well try talking to God. He will here you and he's always there to reach out a helping hand even if it might not seem like it :)

111. SnuggieLad

While I support you, This has gone far enough.

112. Ryleighblue

UH_UM we are off subject.

113. Batmanmusicfreak101

@primeralph no skinny dipping you like video games though?? lol

114. primeralph

|dw:1370984453505:dw|

115. primeralph

@Batmanmusicfreak101 yeah!!!

116. Batmanmusicfreak101

Yes @Ryleighblue wayyy off topic and @primeralph PS3?

117. poopsiedoodle

Lol. Now we're bringing religion in a thread about something entirely inconsequential. You're making me hue, guys.

118. BrandonGarza777

@Cutie<3 @e.cociuba forreals we all need to know are role in the kingdom of God bulying can also be a test of strength and it can make you stronger don't listen to what people say just know that someone is praying for a person like you in their lives so never give up on hope you'll be stronger.

119. primeralph

Nah, PC gamer to da boneeeeee!!! Got a PC?

120. primeralph

Cuite less than 3 is here!!!

121. Cutie<3

Amen @e.cociuba God is the only one that will ever stand by you full time. He's always there. THIS MIGHT HELP!! http://www.fallingplates.com/index.php?a=cancel&i=6&z=196251 @BrandonGarza777 , agreed(:

122. thomaster

This is why they invented the chat and private messages...

123. poopsiedoodle

$$\Huge\text{I am having so many *hue*s here, guys. Please, my sides are gonna start hurting pretty soon.}$$

124. poopsiedoodle

so many.

125. UmarsBack

i honestly dont know hwo you get bullied online...you shouldnt take anything serious when youre online...dont make sendse

126. UmarsBack

sorry for my typos

127. primeralph

Well, I'm about to leave. The kitchen needs me. Please remember to help someone in need. Don't neglect people who have been bullied.

128. e.cociuba

@BrandonGarza777 Totally Agreed! @Cutie<3 Woot woot u go girl! :)

129. Cutie<3

@UmarsBack that is true(: But some people are that bored with their lives:P BAHA! thanx @e.cociuba !

130. Ryleighblue

OKAY Elminating all non participants of the fight against bulling if your not with us please leave now.

131. Ryleighblue

bullying*

132. UmarsBack

cyber bullying is retarded,

133. purpleboy16

why yu put my name in this

134. Batmanmusicfreak101

@Ryleighblue hey PM me? Gotta talk to you pleaseee :)

135. Ryleighblue

EVERYBODY TAGGED, you were tagged to help us stand together in the fight against bully IF you have any Ideas or anything you wanna share please do it here or pm me @callie2240 or @Batmanmusicfreak101 we are gonna do our best to start something against bullying and remember anything Big starts with something small

136. poopsiedoodle

Lol.

137. poopsiedoodle

Just... Lol.

138. SnuggieLad

GUYS! STOP, PLEASE! This is a nice thing to do standing up for bullying it has gone too far now. Please keep in the fight but stop with the chatting

139. Ryleighblue

merp thanks ALOT guise you made this bad.

140. mangorox

Why is this sooooooooooooooooooooooooooo long?

141. Ryleighblue

Uh-oh......it's never good when kyleigh takes her time typing.......

142. Ryleighblue

@KyleighKane

143. Ryleighblue

KYLES ITS NOT THAT HARD TO FIND THIS !!!!!!!!!!! @KyleighKane

144. KyleighKane

@Compassionate or how ever you spell it i dont really care. How can you say that cyber bullying cant hurt anyone? Cyber bullying can lead up to physical bullying. Im sorry you suposedly got jumped but at the moment i dont care. I have been cyber bullied for years, It has lead me to self harm, And attempting suicide. Cyber bullying may not harm someone physically, but the mental abuse is crucial. How the freaking heck is being bullied a choice???!!!! Wow, your so UN compassionate. @poopsiedoodl

145. Ryleighblue

your phone would die .-.

146. Batmanmusicfreak101

@KyleighKane you my good friend are my favorite person at the moment! :)

147. Ryleighblue

@poopsiedoodle She misspelled it btw this is my sister so uhh got something to say to her skip it over to me

148. Ryleighblue

She's my sister @Batmanmusicfreak101 I drug her here to take ccare of it cause I knew she would :3

149. KyleighKane

I put the e it just didnt work okay.

150. poopsiedoodle

@Ry who misspelled what? By the way, I think I've made my case in the other pointless post about this.

151. Ryleighblue

BUT ITS NOT A FUDGING CHOICE YOU POOPSIE HEAD HONESTLY IT'S NOT!!!!!!

152. poopsiedoodle

Mhmm. Sure.

153. KyleighKane

No, actually you havent. The only case you have made is that you are a complete moron who needs to get the sense knocked into them. How is it a choice to be bullied? You dont choose to be hurt. Your dont choose for people to call you things or say bad things about you. @poopsiedoodle

154. Ryleighblue

you wouldn't know cause your probably a cyber bullier and don't really care. it's kewl until you experience it

155. Batmanmusicfreak101

AMEN!

156. JA1

Guys stop the fighting, this is over the top already just go your separate ways and ignore comments directed at you. I do not want anyone to get suspended when we are supposed to be fighting together to stop bullying not against :)

157. poopsiedoodle

Lol. @KyleighKane if you actually read what I posted you would know why I'm saying it's a choice. @Ryleighblue you could not be further from the truth. Really. I've had people say pretty horrible stuff to/about me online, and honestly, I. Don't. Care. I just don't. I'm not hurt in any way by it, I just ignore them and go on with my normal, unsuicidal life.

158. JA1

Guys before you reply think about what you are going to say, there is NO need to argue about this topic.

159. Ryleighblue

Okay well I'm sory for saying what I did but still until your us and been as deep in bullying as we have you honestly don't know I'm sorry but you don't.

160. Ryleighblue

okay well peoples. I have to go . This is stil an issue and we can fix it. I'll be on later so peace.

161. poopsiedoodle

Trust me, for a good 3-5 years, I have been one of the most made fun of/hated people at school. I think that's "deep" enough.

162. JA1

Bullying is the issue at play NOT whether or not @poopsiedoodle agrees with your point of view on bullying. So just stop fighting and let's move towards actually solving the problem.

163. KyleighKane

@poopsiedoodle Okay, thats you but other people actually have feelings. You really need to think about that. Not everyone can just ignore it and not think about it. How would you feel if you have a bunch of people harassing you online? You couldnt go on any website pretty much because they would harass you their to, then you see some of them at the store or some where else and they harass you, then your to scared to even step out of your house because your tired and beaten down from it? @JA1 No.

164. Batmanmusicfreak101

yours has been 3-5 years this has been our whole life I understand you are bullied/hated but you never know what we have been through for all you know our bullying is/was far worse than yours and @JA1 I agree with it's kinda hard when he is being so negative about it though and wont drop it

165. JA1

@KyleighKane So you don't want to contribute to the peace and actually solve this instead of fighting? I am glad you all are contributing to this topic but play by the rules please.

166. JA1

@Batmanmusicfreak101 I agree but just ignore him, does it really affect you what he types?

167. Ryleighblue

WOAH BROAH LEAVE HER ALONE YOU OBVIOUSLY DONT KNOW WHAT SHES SAYING @ja1

168. Batmanmusicfreak101

@JA1 yes it does cause it effects what I think and no one gets in the way of that im one stubborn girl and if he dosn't cut it out I'm not either

169. poopsiedoodle

Well, let me put it this way. 4th-8th grade. Lol. Not that anything in elementary school even matters or anything. And also some of 9th grade. I know what it's like. And I know how easy it is to ignore it.

170. JA1

@Ryleighblue I am not saying her feelings are wrong, they are perfectly fine, I am just saying that you can't just sit here and fight about it all day instead of working together to solve this.

171. KyleighKane

No i contribute but he didnt have to Come on his status about bullying and stuff and start bulling himself. So please stop telling me how i should reply to him and i shouldnt. @JA1

172. Ryleighblue

@Batmanmusicfreak101 I have to go can you keep things under control?

173. JA1

Okay guys I was simply asking for you to talk about this while playing by the rules but fine... If you guys want to sit here and bicker while you could be working togetehr to help in this aid then so be it, I just hope none of you get suspended.

174. Batmanmusicfreak101

oh and @JA1 there are no rules when it comes to standing up for what you believe in and @Ryleighblue yeah im sure I can :) I got your sister here and if she leaves it'll be cool :p i'll talk to ya later!

175. Ryleighblue

Thanks :3

176. KingGeorge

I agree with @JA1 here. The arguing needs to stop.

177. KyleighKane

Im not going anywhere. We got this @Batmanmusicfreak101 (;

178. KyleighKane

@KingGeorge NOBODY ASKED YOU.

179. Batmanmusicfreak101

We arn't arguing we are speaking our opinion in a very strong and upset way :) geeze ppl need to get their facts straight

180. KyleighKane

Seriously though.

181. JA1

@KyleighKane I am saying this sincerely, that sir up there is a mod,and that was kind of disrespectful.

182. KyleighKane

What the freak is a mod. I JUST SIGNED UP

183. Rayvenn.14

#STOPTHEBULLYING

184. Batmanmusicfreak101

@KyleighKane down girl no need to get suspended keep it calm okay? stand up for everyone but keep it calm

185. JA1

A moderator and he could suspend you for being disrespectful to someone of authority here, so please be respectful.

186. KyleighKane

I was being respectful. I was respectfully telling him nobody asked him.

187. mangorox

That's still being disrespectful, people are aloud to give there opinions on here. Let's all try to get along

188. Rayvenn.14

bye everyon1!!!!

189. KyleighKane

That wasnt an opinion that was telling us to stop fighting for what we believe in.

190. Cutie<3

It's funny because were talking about peacefully stopping bullying, and were all attacking one another:/ I dont see how this helps:( We should all put aside our differences and focus on the subject at hand:)

191. JA1

My point exactyl...

192. mangorox

^^^truth Who started this riot anyways?

193. Cutie<3

Haha(: no need to tell who started it..it will only cause my drama:)

194. Batmanmusicfreak101

EVERYBODY! stop commenting! You got something to say you can say it on facebook/twitter tomorrow morning! it's getting out of control on here! and no im not backing down im just taking it to somewhere else okay? okay NOW STOP COMMENTING!

195. Cutie<3

*more

196. JA1

Thank you @Batmanmusicfreak101 for coming to senses, I support your view but this is a study website guys, so please take this elsewhere but do know that you have my support 100% :) Now let's get back to helping users aye :D

197. modphysnoob

cliff notes ?

198. Batmanmusicfreak101

@modphysnoob on this? Trying to stop bullying but things got out of hand but they are controled now and we are taking this to a bigger social media site such as facebook and twitter no need to read everything lol most o f it was two annoying ppl just yeah imma shut my mouth now but thats it hah

199. modphysnoob

thanks , batman

200. JA1

Can we have this closed it is lagging the site :/

201. JA1

Why don't you all start a fresh post and close this one so we don't have all these arguements out here.

202. e.mccormick

Completely ignoring them is bad. It makes them worse. Not responding to them, but contacting the assorted authorities, is far better. The earlier a bully realizes what they are doing is wrong, the better. On the Mark and Bryan Radio Show, one of their co-hosts was in this group of guys. They used to have fun doing this and that, and he never thought anything about it. Then one day he looked over his shoulder at this guy they would usually shove around a bit and saw abject terror on the other kid's face. He did not realize he and his friends were bullying people! He thought everyone knew it was a joke. From then on, when hes friend would say things like, "Hey, lets push so and so and watch them stumble," he would reply, "That doesn't sound fun, making someone fall and get hurt." And it worked. He does not know how his group go started doing these things or why, but when he realized it was wrong, he was able to stop it. That is one type of bullying. There are lots of others. Some are people lashing out. Some are people being stupid. None of them get solved if everyone ignores it.

203. Batmanmusicfreak101

@JA1 I will deffinatly make sure this post is closed so not every fight is out there :)

204. poopsiedoodle

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205. terenzreignz

Maybe more than anything else, cyberbullying is easier to ignore I mean, unlike 'normal' bullying, like, say, in school, where you have no choice but to go every weekday or so, cyberbullying requires a medium, a chat room or a social networking site. So that says that all one 'technically' needs to do to avoid such actions is to avoid the site altogether. Two new problems arise, however: First, the site may be more vital than it would seem, such that ignoring it would have consequences that seem to outweigh the benefits. (Say, facebook, particularly when one has built up a big reputation, has lots of friends, etc) Second, it's when the bully begins to stalk (well... somebody doesn't have a life...) because abandoning a site is one thing, abandoning the internet is something different entirely, and may be virtually infeasible. Your thoughts? [I always like to try to decompose problems into smaller bits that can be addressed individually. I may not have done that accurately, but that's for you guys to decide] [Forgive me if you guys might sense a tone of insensitivity, I don't mean to be, if I ever am :)]

206. e.mccormick

There is all sorts of research on it. Here are just a few references in these: http://voices.yahoo.com/cyberbullying-top-5-myths-12133842.html?cat=25 http://www.huffingtonpost.com/larry-magid/cyberbullying_b_2162759.html Like all research, the results come into question and change as people design better tests and ways to confirm, but that shows some of the latest trend numbers and indications in an easily readable way. And there are lots of other ways it starts, like why Angie Varona became bullied at her school.

207. JA1

^this is the type of discussion we need, not bickering :) and thanks batman

208. Batmanmusicfreak101

Always here to help the citizens of Gotham! Nananananananana......BATMAN!!!

209. poopsiedoodle

Not funny. Or on topic.

210. poopsiedoodle

Compassionate, spit it out already! Geez! :P

211. Compassionate

Hello, I'd first like to restate my apology if anyone was offended by my aforementioned argument. I believe the implications words have on your body i.g., hate speech and condescending language, is a choice. Everyone is effected differently by cyberbullying. @KyleighKane I'm sorry to hear that, but you need to understand that you're young and haven't been conditioned to the real-world yet. Teenagers have a lot of hormones that cause them to act in these aggressive manners. A good friend of mine would self-warm herself because of cyberbullying. Now that she is older, she looks back on it and realizes how big of a mistake it was by letting those people get to her. Also, if I may remind you about the code of conduct, please do not insult people by calling them a, "moron." As for your case, no one technically held you down and made you cut, burn, scratch, beat, or perform any other type of self-harm. If someone called me a racial slur, I'd ignore it. On the same step, if someone cyberbullied me, I'd ignore it. However, for you, it lead you to self-harm. That proves my statement earlier made; that the implications are a choice. You did those things out of your own freewill. As @primeralph said, "Compassionate isn't wrong. No one is wrong." That's true. We are all sharing our opinions on the matter so we can effectively tackle the issue. The more we understand about the good and bad, the cons and pros of cyberbullying, the mental-state and consciousness, and the physical stress cyberbullying puts someone through, the better we can diagnose a cure, or rather, a solution. @KingGeorge He said it right! We should not be arguing and bickering like school children. Stating your opinion is fine - however, you should NEVER respond to it with flame, condescending speech, or hateful language. I realize my speech may have been a little extreme or red-pilled, but that's that. End of story. I do not appreciate people calling me a bad person and insulting me because I stood ground behind my belief. @Ryleighblue You have clearly asked us to speak our voices in your opening sentence. I believe it is wrong to speak ill toward me or anyone else for following your given instructions. It was vague, as you said, "please speak up your voice will be heard." You should always make the thread topic blatantly clear so we can avoid these sort of conflicts. IF I would have understood it clearly, then I Would have never posted. I'm sorry that I may have offended you in any way. However, I also feel the topic should have been clearly stated. @poopsiedoodle Its always nice to meet a fellow bro. I know you were just having fun. Hopefully you didn't get in too much trouble! @BostonBlue @Preetha I'm sorry that all this happened. It was not my intentions. My intentions were good. - Neil Patrick Harris

212. primeralph

@Compassionate Thanks for living up to your name. Much love. (-_-).

213. poopsiedoodle

$$\normalsize\color{green}{\text{>implying he is Neil Patrick Harris}}$$ I was actually being serious with what I said though, even though I was having good laughs at this post. Say anything contradicting someone on a thread you disagree with, and people treat you like you're satan.

214. primeralph

@poopsiedoodle Please don't bring this back.

215. poopsiedoodle

I wasn't bringing anything back.

216. Compassionate

I stand with @poopsiedoodle . I strongly feel that the Original Poster should have mentioned that she wanted an Anti-Bullying support group. It's hard to determine this and that with such vague details. I think it's wrong that Poopsie got verbally attacked, and bullied in a sense, the same thing they're trying to prevent, all because he compared and contrasted reasoning. Everyone, remember, just because they think differently than you doesn't mean they're wrong. We should learn to respect and embrace multi-opinions rather than stick to a conservative; tunnel-vision view. This is my last post in this thread. I really hope we all learned a valuable lesson. Now, that the dust has cleared, below this line we only support the fight against bullying. EVERYTHING mentioned earlier can now be forgotten. Everything below this line has to relate to something POSITIVE about Anti-bullying. ________________________________________________________________________

217. Ryleighblue

@Compassionate I'm sorry cause now I understand with the wqay you put that.

218. Ryleighblue

TO everybody here I'm closing this and reopening a more open topic on bullying I will tag you all. Thanks!

219. SnuggieLad

No, please dont! This went too far as it was. Lets not pour salt on any open wounds. While we are happy to be supporting the topic please dont open another.

220. JA1

@Ryleighblue I support your cause 100% thanks for being understanding :)